Having kindness in your soul is not weakness. That does not mean you need to get rolled over by the "unkind" over and over. Strive to take a moment and realize kindness can take on different forms, from hot soup to a hungry stranger to the perspective you take when dealing with unsavory characters. We can all feel the good v bad duality in and around us. The difficulty is first identifying where the initial gut reaction comes from, then learning/striving for it to come from/"transfer to the good side". Remembering that God does not strive to create push-overs.honje19960321 wrote: Sun Nov 20, 2022 7:42 pm I've had some troubles in my life recently. But I can get over it. . After all, I'm only 26 years old. On the way of constantly exploring self-worth.
My biggest bottleneck is
I am increasingly unable to socially communicate with Chinese and even Asians, and the social distance cannot be kept too close. I can no longer trust them.
I will get through this.
Many times I fantasize that if I were born in the United States, Australia, Canada, or European countries, it would be fine.
I must admit that my greatest weakness is being too kind. It is indeed ridiculous to say this from my own mouth. . .
As a result, I am often deceived by scheming Chinese people.
But my biggest advantage is that I am very positive. Even if something bad happens. I can also turn bad luck into good luck. Be very optimistic about everything.
May God be with me and all of you.
Realize financial freedom.
You have a great grasp of all of this, especially considering your age. Myself, having the same innate views about these things, write this to my benefit as much as for anyone else's.
...I mean that's all just in case the baseball bat doesn't work